February 2012
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Sex-negative messages don’t keep people from having sex. They keep people from...
– Sex-Negative Education and the Spectre of Rape « Sex Positive Activism (via anorable)
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I am angry that I, as a woman, have been taught to exist as something sexual for...
– Lady of the Iron Islands: Just reiterating what many others have said before me:
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Beauty ideals are internalized, rationalized, and socially legitimized: the...
– Feminist Consumerism and Fat Activists, Joseé Johnston and Judith Taylor (via butnotinlove)
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In my Human Sexuality class today someone brought...
I obviously participate wholeheartedly in that class and when the professor asked why it could be a bad thing (looking for an answer about how women could use it for revenge against men who have slighted them which… ugh that’s a whole separate issue) I talked about how it is another manifestation of rape culture. Another example of women being given tools to avoid rape instead of men...
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The more I watch the Voice the more I realize Adam...
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The central problem with this feminine technology goes beyond issues of...
– “Why Feminine Technologies Matter” Judith A. McGaw, 1996
(emphasis and gender neutralizing mine)
BOOOOBS.
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Superbowl Texts
Me: I'm being that awkward girl who sits alone in the bathroom with a cat during the superbowl.
LOLBoyfriend: Lay of the grass.
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There’s an important difference between saying “I don’t enjoy that” or “I don’t...
– Robert Jensen Doesn’t Understand Sex-Positivity (via sexisnottheenemy)
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We evolved to enjoy sex. We are descended from thousands of generations of...
– Greta Christina at Alternet
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Even sticking to the higher plane of love, is it so very obvious that you can’t...
– Richard Dawkins (via thehumorlessfeminist)
What we need to let ourselves do is acknowledge that sex is a big deal for some...
– Libidos, Assumptions, and Miscommunication | No, Seriously, What About Teh Menz? (via sexisnottheenemy)
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I hate watching House Hunters where parents of...
xannon:
If your kid runs its head into the corner of a support beam, you probably have bigger problems. Like a dead baby.
JUST BUY THE FUCKIN’ HOUSE. YOUR KID WILL BE 18 IN NO TIME AND THEN THEY’LL HATE YOU REGARDLESS OF SHARP CORNERS ON SUPPORT BEAMS.
Julie and I talk about this all the time and also yell it at the TV.
I am what is called a sex-positive feminist. Or maybe a radical feminist, or,...
– Liz Phair forever (via emilygould)
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Pumpernickel toast, melted gouda and thin cut...
So DELICIOUS.
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Things to Worry About
pinkhotel:
In 1933, F. Scott Fitzgerald ended a letter to his 11-year-old daughter, Scottie, with the following:
Things to worry about: Worry about courage Worry about cleanliness Worry about efficiency Worry about horsemanship Things not to worry about: Don’t worry about popular opinion Don’t worry about dolls Don’t worry about the past Don’t worry about the future Don’t worry about growing...
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psychotropicpolitics:
i wish it was socially acceptable to shout “PUT IT IN MY BUTT!” as like, an affection thing. instead of saying “I love you” all over the place.
In my group of friends, the only thing more acceptable and affectionate than shouting “put it in my butt” is sticking your finger in/around their butt.
You want a physicist to speak at your funeral. You want the physicist to talk to...
– Aaron Freeman “You Want A Physicist To Speak at your Funeral” (via philproctor)
Heartfelt “fuck yeah this”.
(via iamheathen)
joaniepepperoni:
Last night I told my friend to tell a guy I thought he was cute and then when I got home I added him on Facebook and liked at least 3 of his statuses. Tequila was on sale last night.
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whydoihaveablog:
asteakandmilkshake:
Joan Rivers got stoned and ate some food. Anderson Cooper made fun of her.
[CNN]
Joan Rivers is not just my main bitch, she’s the main bitch.
This is how my mom and her best friend were acting when they both had enormous margaritas at lunch and no food. They made me pick them up and take them to the pet store to get food and my mom’s best friend...
Secrets
tomyhusband:
I’m the one you always tell.
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For my Human Sexuality class (that I’m INSANELY excited about) we have to find an article every week pertaining to anything about human sexuality and write a short response to it. I’ve pretty much already planned all of mine out because of how many gender theory blogs I follow. Again, can’t contain my excitement.
The only problem with the class is that it’s full of...
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Switched at Birth is getting WAY TOO REAL!
So now apparently cute rich boy had scoliosis when he was 10 and had a back brace and surgery and he is basically me in cute rich boy form and we must be soulmates.
January 2012
73 posts
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I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I...
– Lisa Kleypas, Blue-eyed Devil (via dolefulness)
I think I think this as much about romantic love as I do about friend love. They’re almost exactly the same love anyway, except there is (usually) no sex with friend love (unless there is).
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Steal from the best. If you can’t think of a character for a story, think of...
– Kurt Vonnegut, quoted in the excellent And So It Goes (via austinkleon)
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To protest a bill that would require women to undergo an ultrasound before...
– Huff Po (via rachelfershleiser)
This is the most beautiful thing. Can we send her flowers?
(via jaimealyse)
Stories you read when you’re the right age never quite leave you. You may forget...
– Neil Gaiman (via misswallflower)”
Piracy’s preserving effect, while little known, is actually nothing new. Through...
– Provocative read on why history needs software piracy. Reminiscent of the story of how the widely pirated first edition of Arabian Nights made it one of the most influential pieces of storytelling in history. (via austinkleon)
psychotropicpolitics:
so far the weirdest thing about scotland is the fact that newspapers call professors of political science AND QUOTE THEM for stories about politics. “hey person who has studied this thing, what do you think? the public values your opinion!”
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